There is something extremely moving about the statements made by Denise and Abdul Ahad on page 3 of this week's newspaper.

Through their wise words the devoted couple have calmly and simply addressed a multitude of issues which are affecting the quality of so many people's lives in our midst. They have openly talked of the taboo subjects of mixed marriages, racism in the playground, parental strictures and equality.

There is also a great level of sadness in sections of their stories, parts of which should make people pause and think about their own attitudes and what they could personally do to build a better future for our children.

It is hard to accept the truth that in these days a child might be intimidated by their parents for forming a friendship with another, simply on the grounds of race.

It took a level of courage for Denise to write her brief but straight-to-the-point letter to the KN. In it Denise said she had read the call for cards for Asians suffering from racist attacks, but she added: "What about white people who suffer racist attacks? Who do we go to? Can we also have cards?"

Normally such statements fit the mould of racists and bigots - but not in this case. It is a perfectly reasonable question to ask. As Abdul says - what goes for one goes for all.

It is often said there's a shortage of real role models for young people to follow. In Denise and Abdul we have a gem.

It should now be a case of actions speaking louder than words.

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